How can I balance holding others accountable with taking responsibility for myself?
Prioritize self-accountability first, as holding others accountable is not feasible. Focus on personal truth, values, and compassion.
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Prioritize self-accountability first, as holding others accountable is not feasible. Focus on personal truth, values, and compassion.
Ask the person to repeat their comment and question their intent to disrupt their expectation of a reaction and encourage reflection.
Replace 'like' with stronger words such as 'because', use pauses, and ask others for feedback.
Use the phrase 'I remember things differently' to assert your truth and avoid giving power to the gaslighter.
Respond by asking if their statement sounds rude, acknowledging their rightness, and suggesting a better phrasing.